Coming
back from Italy after four weeks has made me appreciate a few things
we take for granted. Here are a few.
We
Americans are used to our SUVs, our full-size sedans, and our pickups
with beds that easily fit 4 x 8 panels of plywood. We like soft
suspensions and automatic transmissions. Not so in Italy where all
cars are small, ride hard, and likely have manual transmissions. And
there are no F-150s. Why? Italian roads.
We
Americans are used to smooth surfaces, wide lanes, long stretches of
straight roads, and interstates that crisscross the country. Italy
has no highways to match ours. Their roads are narrower and often
riddled with teeth-rattling potholes; country lanes are barely wide
enough to allow small cars to pass each other; and most cities,
especially in mountainous Tuscany, are connected by dangerous, curvy
roads that call for both hands on the wheel.
We
Americans ride bikes mostly for exercise. In Italy cycling is a
popular sport, with cycling clubs sponsoring competitions on almost
every weekend. Moreover, bikes, motorcycles, and scooters are
essential forms of transportation on roads with no shoulders and no
bike lanes. There are tour buses, of course, but only tiny school
buses for elementary school children. Many older kids must ride
trains to regional high schools.
We
Americans enjoy the benefits of cheap energy. We pay $3 for a gallon
of gas, and we maintain a constant comfort level in our homes with
heat and air conditioning. Gasoline in Italy averages $7 a gallon,
and windows commonly have shutters to combat summer heat and winter
cold, because electricity and especially natural gas, which must be
imported, are very expensive. It's the reason many people still hang
their laundry out to dry on clotheslines and balconies.
We
Americans have fully stocked supermarket shelves and huge malls that
meet our every need. We have rows of fast-food and other restaurants
catering to every taste and budget. Except for an occasional
McDonald in big cities, Italians bars (their fast-food restaurants)
have limited offerings. But Italians do have great pizzas and
gelatos to die for. As for supermarkets and malls, Italy has none to
compare with Walmart and Chesapeake's Greenbriar complex.
Does
that mean that Americans have the best of everything? Hardly. I
have seen nothing in this country to compare to the charm of Italy's
medieval cities, its magnificent art and architecture, its serene
landscapes, and its peaceful, clean, and safe environment. I will
always remember the Italians I met for their grace and warmth, their
zest for life, and their welcoming embrace.
We
Americans often place too much emphasis on our comfort and physical
well-being. We need to be reminded from time to time that happiness
is not guaranteed by material abundance, but is more often achieved
in the simplest of ways, in opening our eyes to the beauty that
surrounds us, in establishing new friendships and loving
relationships, and in embracing life in all its rewarding aspects.